Playtime! Bringing Fun and Joy to Displaced Children at the French Border

When thinking about services for refugees and displaced people, we often consider food, clothing, shelter, and medical aid. Rarely do we think about play. Yet, “Play is essential for children’s development,” says Rachel Sykes, director of Project Play. Even children caught in the throes of migration need the opportunity to play — something that Project Play provides. 

A grassroots NGO based in northern France a short hop across the sea from Britain, Project Play offers displaced children the chance to participate in one of the most fundamental aspects of childhood: playing. As Sykes describes, “Many of the children we work with have not had access to formal education for some time, and they may also be experiencing toxic stress due to the conditions they live in. Our sessions hope to offer them a safe space in which they can relax, develop skills and feel a sense of autonomy.”

When founders Claire and Cole first came to the migrant camps at Dunkirk as students in 2018, they were helping with food distribution for the community near the French border. However, they noticed that the children, often disruptive, were simply bored, needing enrichment and engagement. In response, Cole shaved their own head to raise money, and they and Claire dropped out of university to found Project Play. 

Play is serious business

So, why play? When Project Play first began, it attempted to focus on both play and formal education, but quickly realized the difficulty of trying to provide education to children, many of whom had never had formal education, in the midst of a crisis. After consulting with psychologists, they decided to narrow their focus to play only as a means of developing important skills such as, “…fine and gross motor skills… exploring the world around them, health and self-care, listening and concentration, being creative, emotional awareness and regulation, participation and collaboration and self-confidence and self-esteem,” Sykes informs.

The hands of children paint colorful figures.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

Play can also provide a meaningful avenue for processing trauma, a common experience of children in the middle of being displaced from their homes. Furthermore, play lets kids develop social skills and make positive memories, especially important in the face of such hardship. 

Go, Team Go!

Five years on from its launch, Project Play continues to provide support to displaced children in Calais and Dunkirk through the power of play. They have collaborated with child psychologists and a network of professionals to bring meaningful sessions of play to migrant youth at the French border. Their team has grown to include a board of trustees and volunteers. 

A colored cut out created thanks to Project Play.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

Volunteers contribute to sessions, bringing their interests and talents to the table. “We have the most amazing team of volunteers who have come up with some truly engaging ideas,” Sykes enthuses. “Puppet theaters, giant xylophones, treasure hunts and a dragon’s cave have all featured!”

Understanding how valuable volunteers are to this work, Project Play also prioritizes the care of its volunteers, offering accommodation, nutritious meals, and access to mental health services. “Some team members may have a check-in or a call with a mental health professional as we have different avenues for volunteers to look after their wellbeing,” Sykes states. 

Additionally, volunteers are offered opportunities for their own development. Project Play provides “really high-quality training carefully designed so that they can have a good understanding of the context, our work and the risks alongside skilling them up to be effective playworkers,” Sykes expresses. They are also encouraged to “follow their interest, think about how Project Play could develop their career or other areas of our work they would like to get involved in.” 

Days of play

A typical day begins with waking up in the volunteer house, where up to 10 volunteers live at a time. The team heads into Calais to the warehouse/office they share with other organizations. Here, Project Play prepares for a session with the children. After a good meal, volunteers load up the van and spend the afternoons in session with the kids. 

Gathering in a circle, a session begins with games and songs, often a favorite among the children. As Skyes shares, “It brings everyone together and is a great opportunity to be really silly!” This is a chance to build friendships and learn activities the children can do even when Project Play volunteers are not present. “Often we turn up to the session to hear the children leading their own circle time and singing the songs we sing together.”

A hand holds some sort of green slime or putty.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

After circle time, the main activity begins. According to Sykes, “t​​his is planned according to the group considering their likes, ages and any additional needs — think sport, craft, drama and art.” A brief scroll on Project Play’s Instagram page reveals the different activities and themes it offers the children, including making edible “wands” for a magic week to playing ‘pin the nose on the clown’ during a circus-themed session. “We want sessions to be memorable and for the children to know how much we value them and their experience with us.”

Finally, the session concludes with free play, an important time for the children to practice autonomy and choice, which they often lack in their current circumstances. “We work closely with the children on this one and always try to incorporate their requests,” Sykes reports. Once the session is over, the volunteers hold a time of debrief and reflection before heading home to rest and recharge for another day of play. 

Bringing play to migrant children

Project Play takes its services to various locations, including “day centers, safe houses and out in the informal living sites,” which are often “collections of tents in a rural area.” Finding the right space for a session can be challenging. Sykes admits, “Recently, there have been increased police evictions alongside worsening hostility towards organizations; we are now denied a space to carry out sessions and risk being fined.” Nevertheless, the team persists and generally tries to set up an enclosed space for play just a small distance away from the migrant camps in order to minimize distractions and interruptions. 

Project Play is also highly committed to anti-racism in its work. “We acknowledge that we must examine our biases and explore our motivators and dynamics.” Since the beginning, Sykes informs, Project Play has discussed counteracting racial biases and systemic issues possible in humanitarian work and volunteering. 

As part of its anti-racist practice, Project Play critically considers the ethnic and racial background of its volunteers during recruitment. Sykes notes, “We actively seek to recruit varied volunteers who can help diversify our view and approach.” Recognizing anti-racism is an ongoing process, the team members engage in educating themselves and drawing on available resources to improve their work continually. 

The Project Play logo, with a child’s reproduction.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

Making an impact

Project Play is unique in its specialized focus on children. As Skyes describes, it is “the only service in the area targeting younger children.” Measuring the impact of Project Play through statistical reports and quantitative research is especially challenging considering the extreme vulnerability of migrant children. Still, the difference Project Play makes in the lives of displaced children in Calais and Dunkirk is tangible enough to touch. 

Every Project Play volunteer leaves with a success story. The impact is visible in the smiles and giggles of the young participants, finding joy amid difficult circumstances. Shy children who are initially hesitant find confidence as they play. They make noticeable progress in regulating their emotions, working with others, and learning about themselves. 

A tent covered with colorful and jeweled decorations.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

Countless children have enjoyed memorable experiences due to Project Play’s sessions, which Skyes credits as the most rewarding part of their work. Knowing that displaced youth can still make positive memories amid unfavorable conditions drives the passion behind Project Play. 

Notably, Sykes asserts that the work of Project Play does not fully meet the needs of displaced children. “Our service is not enough — all children should have access to formal education in a warm, dry building. But, as long as the state refuses to meet this right, we hope to continue to spread some joy.” 

The future of Project Play

The team remains committed to growing awareness of the situation at the UK/French border and providing even better services to migrant children and their families. “We want the British and French states to provide safe routes for asylum and ensure that all children are provided with a quality education. This is a right,” Sykes passionately resolves. Therefore, “we want to grow our advocacy capacity to better champion the amazing children we work with and push for change.” 

The dream for Project Play? “Project Play doesn’t want to have to exist,” Sykes declares. Until then, Project Play continues its mission to ensure displaced children can do what they are meant to do: play. 

A girl jumps over colorful cones.
Photo courtesy of Project Play

PawsUP and Hands Out for the “Untouchables”

“When 20 people showed up at our 0.3 acre property during the 2020 COVID lockdown, I thought it was the best thing that ever happened to us,” said founder Jay Lau as he recounted the start of his organization, PawsUp.

Jay Lau brings some strays home 

Hailing from Brunei, the tropical kingdom in South East Asia known for its oil wealth and small land area, Lau decided one day to run a shelter for strays. After living and working in Australia for 16 years, he came back to his hometown for Chinese New Year. Though stuck due to travel restrictions, this did not stop Jay from choosing basic kindness by bringing stray dogs home in an old Toyota Kijang (a popular four-wheel drive vehicle here). This was the beginning of PawsUp, a last resort and sanctuary for street hounds and abandoned felines. Just as people revile the homeless, they also view strays as untouchable. 

Pioneering animal welfare in Brunei

In a society that largely turns a blind eye to the plight of strays, the journey of PawsUp is a testament to the power of kindness and perseverance.

Lau now works as Chief Financial Officer for a large technology firm in Brunei. His organization’s foray into the world of animal welfare began when he noticed strays around his neighborhood.

Unlike in much of the Western world, where people can pay the city council or sheltersto pick up strays, our country of Brunei has no such system. On top of that, we don’t have a public shelter for abandoned pets either. Cultural beliefs like not wanting to spay or neuter cats or dogs also persist, swelling  the population of strays even more. 

The fate of these strays is so often a cruel one as many become the victims of poisoning. Our society is said to hate dogs due to misunderstood beliefs around the ritual impurity of dogs. This spills over into the mistreatment of street hounds. Lau makes sure acts of cruelty to animals submitted to him go viral on Instagram to raise awareness regarding the challenge of caring for strays. 

Instead of ignoring the issue like many others in the city, Lau says we should choose basic kindness. 

Fuelled by community support as well as compassion

Starting with just a handful of furry companions in makeshift shelters at five different properties he rented, Lau soon realized the enormity of the task at hand. The challenges were plenty – from financial constraints to societal resistance. Bruneian inhabitants, like those in many other urban centers around the world, harbor a deep-seated animosity toward strays. Yet Lau and his five-person team of full timers have persevered, fueled by the belief that every living being deserves compassion.

As the shelter grew and settled into three stable rented properties, so did the need for manpower. Juggling his demanding job as a financial officer with the responsibilities of running a stray shelter was no easy feat. Lau found himself stretched thin, facing the risk of burnout. It was at this crucial juncture that he sought a lifeline from an unexpected source – Brunei’s own national university.

The University of Brunei Darussalam graciously collaborates with PawsUp by sending two interns every month to help lighten the load of  its overstretched operation. Lau hopes this partnership will go on for at least five more years. 

Members of the public do not understand how the logistics of running a shelter work, Lau says. “Not only do our staff and volunteers cook until 4pm every day to feed our shelter’s animals, we also feed strays until we can spay and neuter them,” he adds. 

“People also text us frequently, asking us to relocate animals they find on the streets. There is also a demand for cheaper spay and neutering services. The latter problem being caused by either poverty or the taboo surrounding such an act,” Jay shares. 

The goal of PawsUp is clear–to continue the partnership with UBD University is one thing, but they also need funding and time. Most of the shelter’s operations come out of Lau’s pocket. He has personally racked up more than US$11000 in veterinary bills that have still to be paid. On top of this, he sees the need for a cheap spay and neutering service for low-income pet owners. Cats and dogs are very popular after all. 

He understands that sustainability is key to the shelter’s longevity and for preventing burnout among his full-time staff. The influx of interns from our national university not only eases the workload but also fosters a community of like-minded individuals dedicated to making a difference.

In a society that often overlooks the plight of strays, Jay Lau stands out as a champion of charity. His journey from a pandemic-grounded accountant to a stray shelter owner is a testament to the transformative power of kindness and good financial responsibility. Through the PawsUp community, he is not only saving lives but also nurturing the next generation of compassionate humans.

His message to others for the new year is for everyone to at least leave street animals alone. Leave them unharmed even if they are untouchable. Now that’s choosing kindness at the very least.